There is no easy way to define the act of cyberbullying, but it is commonly thought of as repeated, online harassment, with the intent to cause harm to the victim. There are many types of cyberbullying, all of which can cause varying degrees of distress. Some of those being, - Harassment – Repeatedly sending offensive messages to a target. - Cyberstalking – Intense harassment and denigration that includes. threats. Harassment becomes cyberstalking when the victim fears for their safety. - Denigration – Derogatory comments about a target. - Exclusion – The purposeful exclusion of the victim, usually from a chat room or group. - Impersonation – The impersonation of the victim online.
In a 2014 teen internet safety survey, conducted by The Futures Company, 61% of teens who report being bullied online say that it was because of their appearance. This is followed by intelligence at 25%, racism (17%), sexual discrimination (15%), financial status (15%), and religion (11%). One fifth falls under ‘Other’. There have been many attempts to prevent cyberbullying in the past, all of which we can learn from today. According to a survey of 627 teens aged 12 to 17 in September of 2020, published on the esafety.gov.au website, 44% of teens have had a negative online experience in the six months prior to the survey, with more than 80% taking some sort of action after-the-fact. Three quarters of these teens wanted more online safety information presented through either their school (43%), a trusted eSafety website (40%), or from a parent or carer (38%). This really shows that there is a demand for more information about the dangers of cyberbullying, and that is needs to be readily accesible to anyone seeking help.
If you or someone you know if being cyberbullied, there are some clear steps you can take to help diffuse the situation. First is to tell a trusted adult or friend, it is important to know that you never have to deal with cyberbullying alone. Next, collect evidence. Take screenshots, photos, make sure to write down the what, when, and where. Third is to report it. Often the simplest way to get cyberbullying removed is to report it to the website it took place on. Most social media sites have terms-of-service rules that allow posts or comments to be removed if any evidence of harmful behaviour is found. If it has not been taken down within 48 hours, and the type of cyberbullying is against the law, it can be reported to the eSafety Commissioner at https://www.esafety.gov.au/report. Once you’ve reported the cyberbullying make sure to do everything in your power to prevent further contact. Many apps or websites have ways to block specific accounts so that their messages cannot be seen. Use these functions to distance yourself from the bully. Last is to look for further help. Talking the experience through with someone is one of the best ways to start to feel better. It could be a friend, family member, or even a helpline service, talk to whoever you feel comfortable with. Additional Resources: - kids help line: 1800 55 1800 https://kidshelpline.com.au/kids/get-help/webchat-counselling/?referrer=%27eSafety%27 - Reachout -https://au.reachout.com/